BumRite Diapers Customer of the Month - February

Miranda M. is our Featured Customer of the Month and will receive a Tots Bots Easy Fit AIO

TotsBots EasyFit AIO

Why did you decide to cloth diaper? Was your decision to cloth diaper supported by friends and family? If not, Why?

Environmental impact! Family has been very supportive, and I actually convinced a friend who is pregnant with her first to cloth diaper as well!

What cloth diaper systems did you begin with? Are you still using those types?

GroVia Newborn AIOs (all in ones), and will move into the GroVia ai2s (all in two - as in two pieces)  Love them!!! Very happy.

Do you stick with one type/brand of diaper, or try multiple? Why?

Sticking with GroVia. Did lots of research, love their products, and won't try others unless GroVia seems to not work.

What do you wish you would have known when you first started out?

I did so much research, I felt well prepared! I found all of the help info on BumRite's website incredibly helpful!!

What accessories can you not live without?

GroVia BioLiners aka "poo-paper" GroVia Bioliners and the diaper sprayer! Love the GroVia cloth wipes and the hands-free Magic Stick. Oh, and love my wipes warmer.

How many diapers do you currently own? Are you happy with this amount?

24 newborn aios. 24 ai2 shells and 48 soakers. Haven't moved into the ai2s yet, but 24 newborn aios have been plenty doing wash every 2 days...

Do you have any cloth diapering tips, secrets, or advice you can offer to parents just starting out?

Read, read read. Between the info on the BumRite Diapers site and the blog allaboutclothdiapers.com, I felt well prepared! Join facebook pages, helpful to read others questions and comments.

Which of our in-stock diapers can we send you for being customer of the month? Why did you choose that particular one? 

Something other than a GroVia, just to have something different, would be great!

Please add any additional comments here. 

 Love, love love BumRite!!!

Max rocking his GroVia Newborn AIOs from BumRite We love you too, Miranda!  THANK YOU!

BumRite Diapers Customer of the Month - January

Holly B. is our Featured Customer of the Month and will receive a GroVia Hybrid Shell in ModFlower Hook and Loop

GroVia Hybrid Shell

1. Please enter the following: Name (First Name + Last Initial) Ages(s) of child(ren) cloth diapered Length of time cloth diapering 

Riley S. Cloth diapered from 3 months to 2 years old. Jocelyn S. Started to cloth diaper at 3 months and still currently cloth diapering.

2. Why did you decide to cloth diaper? Was your decision to cloth diaper supported by friends and family? If not, Why?

I always knew I would cloth diaper since I had learned of it. The biggest reason was the Earth! I was always concerned about how much waste a person contributes in a year. Also, how hard could it be? Well, I knew it was more involved but really, was it something I could do? Absolutely! This beautiful planet we live on needs to be here long enough for all here to thrive. My children need to know how fragile our environment is and what they can do to protect it! We all know about recycling and what not, why is using "sposie" diapers so forced in our nation? Even our parents were against our decision. And honestly, we are helping to save this environment but at the same time, we are saving a whole lot of money! How could we not!?!

3. What cloth diaper systems did you begin with? Are you still using those types?

bumGenius AIO Newborn I have used quite a few cloth diapers. We started out the BumGenius 3.0.    Also used the Kawaii. I noticed they were not coming out as clean as I would have expected. I was very unhappy with the results but stuck with them.  With my 2nd child, I found Gro-Via. I absolutely love these diapers. They come out very clean in my wash cycle and I'm in love with how you can reuse the shell and just change the soaker pad. The only other thing I use for my diapers is the Tiny Bubbles detergent. This detergent is spectacular! I don't have the fancy gadgets like the diaper sprayer and I don't think I miss it either. I'm sure it works wonderfully but with the GroVia and the Tiny Bubbles, I have no need!

4. Do you stick with one type/brand of diaper, or try multiple? Why?

When I started with the BumGenius I wasn't happy and tried the Kawaii. I stuck with them even though I wasn't happy. I wish I had learned of the Gro-Via from the start! With my 2nd I tried the BGs's and Kawaii's again but still, wasn't happy. I will stick to only Gro-Via!

5. What do you wish you would have known when you first started out?

Tiny Bubbles HE Laundry Detergent I wish I had known of the Tiny Bubbles detergent. I tried many many detergents and spent a lot of money thinking that maybe cloth diapering wasn't for me. And unfortunately after about a year and a half with my first child, I stopped. With my 2nd, I found the Gro-Via and Tiny Bubbles and it was meant to be!

6. What accessories can you not live without?

I guess I'm a simple cloth diaper person. I have no accessories. But the Gro-Via diapers in conjunction with the Tiny Bubbles detergent...Who needs accessories!!!

7. How many diapers do you currently own? Are you happy with this amount?

At this time I have 8 Gro-Via shells and 12 soaker pads. I'm content with this amount for 2 reasons. First, it gets me through the day. Second, unfortunately I don't have the funds for more shells and soakers. In a perfect world, I would love to have 12 to 15 shells and at least 20 or so soakers. This way I could do cloth diaper laundry every other day. But I'm ok with doing the laundry once a day. I have to keep on top of it though!!!

8. Do you have any cloth diapering tips, secrets, or advice you can offer to parents just starting out?

The sun is a magical detergent!!! Even in the winter I put my stained soaker pads on the window sill and the sun does its job! Sparkling white diapers!!! Also, Tiny Bubbles detergent is wonderful!!! I use it for the baby clothes too!

9. Which of our in-stock diapers can we send you for being customer of the month? Why did you choose that particular one?

If I were lucky enough to be included...I would absolutely love a Gro-Via Mod Flower hook/loop! Josie in her GroVia Hybrid Thank you, Holly!  Your wisdom will help other parents.

Why Use Cloth Diapers?

A helpful video, filmed with an iphone in our old backyard in Napa, CA

Q&A: Fix for Leaking Cotton Cloth Diapers

Here is a quick email correspondence with a customer who was having problems with her GroVia hybrid cloth diaper system.


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From Customer:


Hello BumRite - I'm not sure who to address this email to, but I'm having some problems with the Grovia diapers I bought from you a few months ago. I seem to have a lot of leakages with them and wondered if you had any suggestions about how to avoid this? My son is 7 months old and I have had problems for a few months with his clothes getting wet when he has a wet diaper. I change him more frequently but this doesn't seem to make much of a difference. I don't have this problem with the other diapers that I have (rumparooz) and I wonder if it's because of the cotton inserts. 


Reply to Customer:

Hi!  I am sorry that you are having problems with the diapers.  I assume that you  "prepped" them by washing AND drying at least 5 times before use.  I swear - it took my GroVia soakers 15 times before the really worked well.

The dryer also helps to eliminate the naturally occurring oils in the cotton so that they don't repel.

Do you have access to DAWN dishwashing liquid (the Blue formula)?  It sounds like you have either 1) mineral buildup 2) detergent buildup 3) a combination of the two and you need to "strip" the material with the Blue Dawn.

Here is a "How To" article on washing (read the section about "stripping"):

http://www.bumritediapers.com/Articles.asp?ID=138

Also - print this list and take it to the store for proper laundry detergent (you don't want anything that will coat the diapers, like softeners, fragrances, brighteners, etc):

http://www.bummis.com/media/detergent-information.pdf

Hope this helps.  We use GroVia during the day and love it - but Cotton can be persnickety.  Once you get it right, though, it is THE BEST diapering fabric available.

Stick with it!

Angela

Angela Powell
Chief Bum
BumRite Cloth Diaper Company
angela@bumritediapers.com
(707) 812-1BUM

Why Motherhood is so Challenging

This blog is dedicated to the NEW MOMS out there.  It is my desire to give you permission to cry and complain a little about how difficult and exhausting motherhood is - but also to know that these excrutiating first few days/months are created for a reason: To bond with your baby.  To strengthen your own self-knowledge and worth.  To fortify your character.

I've been meaning to write this post for quite some time.  I'm not sure why I've taken it upon myself to write these things - it most likely does not portray myself in the right social light - however, I think it is important to tell MY truth.  In my over-sharing and painful honesty, I can only hope to allow other mom's to stop being so hard on themselves, especially at the beginning of their Mom-Journey.

Motherhood is a rite of passage.  An adventure.  A chance at soul-enrichment.

The moment you bring your first baby into the World, you are immediately inducted into a Sorority of Mothers: regardless of race, background, religious affiliation, social-economic wealth, etc.  You are a Mom, Mama, Mum, Madre.

Sometimes your preconceived notions of what being a Mom entails are warped by the media, TV sitcoms, and even your own Mother's recollection of her storied, perfect, Norman Rockwell-like child-rearing days.

Have you stopped to congratulate yourself?  You housed and grew a baby from two tiny cells for the last 10 months.  And then you survived (maybe even relished) birthing the baby.  You may be a little tired from this endeavor.  But it doesn't stop here!  No way.  Now all of those fabulous life-supporting hormones begin to depart and other lovely ones ramp up so that you can continue to grow and nurture your baby - just outside of your body.  Now you have to conscientiously make an effort at growing and caring for this baby.  Now you are in control.  Ha! Not Really.

Did you know that it is scientifically proven that sleep deprivation is equal to legal-drunkeness?  There is a law against Drinking and Driving.  What about Sleep-Deprivation and Motherhood?  It definitely impairs your judgment.

A low point in Week 2 of Baby #1

Scene:

Un-showered for 4 days, Mom is holding screaming baby.  Mom is leaning against wall for support.  Holding phone.  Speed-Dialing Husband.

Conversation:

Dad - is everything OK?  Mom - sob.  Baby - wailing.
Dad - do you need me to come home?  Mom - sob.  Baby - wailing.

Phone disconnects.

End of Scene.

In my 20/20 hindsight, I implore you to try as hard as you can to commit those 8am, 11am, 2pm, 5pm, 8pm, 11pm, 2am, 5am feeding/burping/toe-curling/snuggling sessions into your Memory.  It is during these times of physical and mental exhaustion - where we are somehow able to trudge onward because a life depends on it - that we encounter our Inner Strength.  I've always been a Strong Woman.  Because of this experience of Motherhood, I am Sheena - Queen of the Jungle.

It is in this first experience that you and your baby bond.  When you pull through a tough time together, you cement your relationship.  Together you learn to trust and love.  And grow.

Stop being so hard on yourself.  Ask for help.  Take care of yourself.

When somebody tells me that their baby is sick, I ask how the Mom is coping?  I rarely worry about the baby because Mom will escape quicksand to tend to her young.  Even at her own peril.

You need to ACCEPT this current role and know that every step of child-rearing comes in stages: as soon as you think that you can't go on another day, it changes.  As soon as you think that you are the best parent in the World and that your child is an Angel, it changes.  These episodes usually occur in 3 month cycles.

When you are enjoying a good stage, pat yourself on the back and enjoy it.  Quickly commit these moments to memory and flash back to them in times of trouble and doubt.

When you are in a bad stage, remind yourself that THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

Know that you will NEVER be challenged with more than you can handle.  But you will be tested and stretched to the point of breaking.

After all, this is what Motherhood is about.

Embrace it.  Endure it.  Grow.

Yours in Motherhood,

Angela Powell
Chief Bum
www.bumritediapers.com

BumRite Birth to Potty Training Cloth Diaper Package

So many people email or phone us with questions about cloth diapers: they want to do it, but are overwhelmed by the options.

I point them to the BumRite Birth to Potty Training Package that we assembled to make it easy to visually see and read WHY we chose the items that we did.


We advise people to take a look at the package and read the descriptions below.  Now they have a foundation on which to build their own stash, or simply choose colors and click, 'Add to Cart'.


Below is the BumRite Birth to Potty Training Package description.
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BumRite Birth to Potty Training Package includes:
 

• GroVia LIVE IT Package-
• 12 GroVia shells
• 24 GroVia soakers
• 2 2-packs of GroVia Cotton Boosters
• 24 GroVia Cotton Wipes
• OPTIONAL bumGenius Diaper Sprayer
• 1 Magic Stick, BioSoakers, BioLiners
• 3 FuzziBunz One Size Pocket Diapers
• 3 infant microfiber inserts
• 3 toddler microfiber inserts
• 2-2pack JoeyBunz hemp doublers
• 2 Planet Wise Diaper Pail Liners
• 1 Natural Baby Company Tote

We put these products together for the parents that want a simple, complete, top-quality package that will take them from birth to potty training and that includes all of the necessary accessories that will make your cloth diapering experience a breeze.

Why did we put these items together?  We like organic cotton next to our baby's most sensitive parts.  During the Day.  We like the stay-dry comfort and adjustable absorbency ability of a pocket diaper for nights.

Here is what is included in this package - and why we chose it:

GroVia LIVE package
12 versatile one size diaper covers (can use with most fitted and prefold diapers, as well)
24 snap in soakers



If you plan to cloth diaper from 8+ pounds on, you need enough shells to keep in rotation 1) for mitigating laundry chores 2) longevity. 

These will be your most washed, most used natural fiber organic cotton GARMENT (remember this) in the next 3 years.  Each soaker has been commercially wash-tested to last 200+ washes.  24 soakers will get you 4,800 diaper changes.  You may need to add a few packs of extra GroVia soakers later on - but it is always nice to get new fluff.  Keep it in mind, but don't worry about it now.

Newborn poo is runny.  GroVia will hold it in, but it may get on the shell.  That is why we put so many shells in this package: longevity and runny-poopy-ness.  Expect to go through at least 6-8 shells in one day in the beginning.

We also chose the GroVia diaper b.c it also allows you to choose between using the organic cotton soakers OR an earth-friendly/baby-friendly disposable.  Super convenient when needed.



GroVia Boosters 2 2-packs (4 total)

GroVia Boosters are made of 3 layers of thirsty Certified Organic Cotton!  Perfect for naps, nights, or long car rides.  These will boost the absorbency of your diaper without adding bulk!  Great for added absorbency in a pocket diaper, too!



3 FuzziBunz One Size Pocket Diapers

Our nighttime solution when doubled with a JoeyBunz Hemp Doubler (also included!).  FuzziBunz are the most adjustable one size pocket diaper available.  Button-Hole elastic micro-adjust for the perfect fit around the legs and waist. 
A
pocket diaper keeps his skin dry by using fleece to wick away the moisture into the
absorbent material inside of the pocket.  We get 12+ hours at nights
with this solution!

We put 3 of these in this package.  Expect to use 2/night in the beginning.




Joey Bunz Hemp Inserts for Nights & Naps! (2-2pk mediums included in this package)




24 GroVia Cloth Wipes

Throw your wipes and dirty diapers into your trash can lined with a pail liner.

We chose the GroVia Cotton Wipes because they are simple, soft and absorbent. Use 1 to clean.  1 to dry. 

We toss our clean wipes into a basket next to our changing table.  No folding.   We simply dip a wipe into a solution of boiled water, tea tree oil, and a mild soap that we keep in a wipe warmer.  We cheat and use Knickernappies Baby Bum Drops to make our solution.

Confession: since we introduced solid food, we use disposable wipes for the Number 2 changes.  Then we follow up with a cloth wipe for a thorough, gentle cleaning.
 
Diaper Sprayer (optional)
Highly recommended.  At the beginning, you don't need to spray off the "solid" poos.  But when you introduce solid food, poop transforms.  It must be discarded into the toilet.  The diaper sprayer is a wonderful appliance for helping those peanut-buttery, sticky excrement into their rightful place: the toilet.  We'll be using this accessory even after diapering.  It makes a great personal shower (aka bidet), easily rinses out the potty training bowl, etc.  Thankful for our sprayer.

 
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2 Diaper Pail Liners

These aren't fancy - but they do the job and have held up well over the last 2 years of constant use!  Line your diaper pail
with this washable, elastic-topped waterproof bag.  When full, simply grab
the bag and haul to your washer.  No drips on the floor!  No need to touch those dirty diapers!  Dump in diapers into the machine by pushing the bottom.  Toss in bag.   Wash together.

You need 2 because you will continue to change diapers while the first is in the wash.  You also want these to last...


 

PlanetWise Diaper Pail Liner

Innovative Seam Sealing

• Reusable to help further reduce waste
• Made with sturdy no pill elastic
• Resists most odors & stains keeping smells in
• Anti-microbial
• Made in the USA
• Innovative leak-proof construction to prevent wicking and leaks. First & ONLY in the industry!
• Generous sizing to fit most diaper pails or waste cans. (approx. 28" tall & circumference of 54". Can be used alone as well.
• PVC Free

2 Smalls and 2 Mediums BabyKicks® Joey-Bunz Hemp Inserts

Dimensions are as follows: Small 13½” long, 6” at the widest part of hourglass shape and 4 ½” at the center Medium 15 ¼ ” long, 6” at the widest part of hourglass shape and 4 ½” at the center We love JoeyBunz!  These have the absorbency of 4 layers of hemp, but since they are only sewn on 1 end - they dry a lot faster!  Love that we can customize the absorbency of our heavy wetter at night when we double one (or two) of these with 1 cotton microfiber insert in our pocket diapers.  These also work fabulously with a prefold diaper tri-folded around it.  Very Versatile.  Very Slim.

Pouch riders for your Pocket Diapers! Now you can enjoy the trim, absorbent and easy to use Joey-Bunz with 4 layers of our most luxuriously soft 55% hemp / 45% cotton fleece! These are only 1/8 of an inch thick, and re-engineered to allow for even faster drying. Even better yet, you can fold our Premium Joey-Bunz in order to have protection where you need it most.

1 Magic Stick Diaper Ointment

With so many options and so much confusion about WHICH, exactly, diaper wetness barrier is safe for cloth diapers, we included one in this package to alleviate some anxiety.  This is a big purchase and you don't want to ruin the diapers' absorbency by choosing a non-cloth-friendly ointment.  We also love the scent and convenience of the GroVia Magic Stick: no fingers in the bum!

How to care for and wash your cloth diapers

Washing Instructions

These are not the diapers of the 70's!  No diaper service required. 

By washing at home, you get to decide what products and/or (not) chemicals with which you wash your diapers. 

My diaper load is the easiest of all my laundry.  It is already sorted and transportable from the baby's room directly to the washing machine with a pail liner.
 
HE Washing Machines do the best at cleaning cloth diapers.  Lots of rubbing and agitation gets them clean!  The fast spin at the end helps with drying time, too.  We use a "Bulky" setting for the wash cycle - it adds more water and a thorough soak at the beginning.

Everybody seems to have an opinion on which and how much detergent to use/not use.  What are the rules?
 
No brighteners, enzymes, fragrances, dyes. Salt-based detergent (NO PLANT, like soy, coconut, etc).

i.e. Don't use anything that will coat the fabric and compromise absorbency!

No waxes or petroleum for the diaper balm.  We use Magic Stick to create a nice, organic, moisture barrier on the skin. If a yeast infection is suspected - see your doctor.  If you need to use Nystatin cream, switch to a disposable or GroVia BioSoaker.

We use (and sell) Tiny Bubbles on all of our laundry.  It is great for sensitive skin. 

 

At the Changing Table:

Change baby.  Pee-only diapers can go directly into the pail.

Regarding the Poopy Diapers: Exclusively breastfed babies make a lovely water-soluble poop that simply washes away in the washer.  Once you introduce solids, though, things change.  You'll need to shake off the solids into the toilet before you put it into the dry pail.  For the sticky ones, a toilet sprayer is helpful.  Now that I've introduced solids to my baby, I SWEAR BY THE TOILET SPRAYER!  (The toilet sprayers are also nice and gentle for post-partum cleansing, toilet bowl cleaning, and later  - potty training bowl rinsing.)

If you choose a fleece-lined diaper, like FuzziBunz or Bum Genius, most solids simply fall into the toilet.  If you go with cotton, like a prefold or GroVia , you can lay a biodegradable liner between the baby and the diaper.  When baby poops, simply grab the ends of the liner, and plop into toilet to flush.  Word of caution: know what kind of plumbing you have in your house before you flush anything besides the norm!  For instance, we have a poop-mulcher/pump because our plumbing terminates in our basement, below the grade of the sewer pipe.  Having already had to replace the $1700 pump once because a tampon was thrown down the toilet, I don't think that the bioliners will have enough time to biodegrade before they are chewed up and wedged in the pump (and I am not going to test my theory).    Same goes for Septic systems.  Caveat Emptor.

DO YOU NEED TO PREP?

Definition: A washing and drying process that readies a naturally oily fiber, like cotton and hemp, to become fully absorbent.
 
Prepping can be a pain, especially when you are excited to start using your diapers right away.  But you only have to do it once and it makes all the difference in the world.  DO NOT SKIP THIS STEP!  Cotton and Hemp are my favorite diapering materials - but they can be tricky in the beginning.  The great thing about natural fibers is that you can beat them up in the washing process and they only get more absorbent and soft.

If you are using plain prefolds or hemp, I will offer you a short-cut.  DO NOT do this with the GroVia Soakers or any AIO diapers as it will void the warranty, cause the waterproof material to shrink and render the elastic saggy and worthless.


PREPPING Short-Cut:

Dawn Original Dishwashing Soap

1. Fill 10 quart cooking pot with water. 
2. Bring to boil.  Take off heat.
3. Add 2 Tablespoon Dawn Original Dishwashing detergent and stir.
4. Add cotton diapers, hemp, etc.
5. Cover with lid and leave overnight.
6. Throw into washer and wash with detergent and dry once.
7. Use on baby.

TRADITIONAL PREPPING:

1. Wash on Hot with normal amount of detergent.  Rinse.
2. Dry on Med-Hi.
3. Repeat 5 times.

You may do this with other laundry, like towels, t-shirts, or sheets.  Just don't prep with your other diapers or the oil from the new ones will coat the old ones and cause them all to repel.

Once prepped, all of your diapers can be laundered together from here on out.

Ready to Wash?


1) Grab your full diaper pail liner bag.  Insert new one.
2) Drag bag to washing machine.  Dump diapers in, toss in bag.
3) Set the wash for a Cold prewash/rinse cycle.  No detergent.
4) When complete, set to 'Super Cycle' on Warm with the normal amount of detergent and double rinse.  DO NOT use super duper HOT water on items that contain PUL or TPU (the waterproofing layer).  Hot water will break down the fibers and cause tears, shrinkage, breaking.  And will usually void the manufacturer's warranty.
5) Transfer to dryer on medium heat (be sure to read manufacturer's suggestions as well) or sun/line dry for extra energy savings and natural bleaching. 

My favorite detergents? (in alphabetical order):

*Country Save  *Planet *Tiny Bubbles from The Natural Baby Company *Tide Free & Clear (for cotton/natural fibers only - contains enzymes)

What does “stripping” the diapers mean and should I be doing it?

Too much detergent, not enough detergent, well-water, hard water, blah blah blah.  If your diapers aren't working the way you think they ought to - or used to - it is time to strip them.

Persistent stink?  Repelling fleece/cotton? Leaky diapers?  You have residue build up and must get rid of it.  Here is how:

1. Put your diapers in the washer, add 1-2 Tablespoons Dawn Dishwashing Detergent.  DO NOT add too much as this product is not made for the washing machine and causes A LOT of bubbles.  For my HE machine, I simply squirt in what might be 2 seconds worth of a light squeeze.
2. Run a warm water wash with an extra cold water rinse.
3. Wash again (short cycle) WITHOUT any detergent to thoroughly rinse your diapers.

Your diapers should be ready to go again - revived!

For tough stains, try the following:

* Wash every 1-2 days.
* Spray with Bac-Out Stain & Odor Eliminator by Bi-O-Kleen before you put soiled diaper into pail.
* Get a toilet sprayer to blow off all the poop directly into toilet (where it belongs!).
* Lay diaper out in the sun for a day (a natural and free disinfectant).
* Use a bit of OxyClean in the second wash cycle.  Use conservatively.

Concerned about Bacteria?

Twice a month, whether we are cloth diapering or not, a good practice is to run a load of sheets, towels, shower curtains, etc with bleach or Hydrogen Peroxide (color-safe).  This sanitizes the basin.
 
Stinky Diaper Pail?:

Simply toss a cloth wipe (or torn piece of t-shirt) with a few drops of tea tree oil on it into your diaper pail and don't close the lid all the way. Wash with your diapers.  Air circulation is your friend in the diaper pail. 

This and other knowledge articles can be found in our Cloth Diapering 101 section at www.bumritediapers.com.